by rulamo | Nov 29, 2020 | Couples Therapy, Relationships
Infidelity and Cheating is Widespread: Statistics show that between 35-50% of all women or men in a relationship have had an affair. With such widespread occurrence of infidelity, affairs cannot only be attributed to some act of deviance or amorality, but must be...
by rulamo | Nov 29, 2020 | Addictions, Psychological Issues, Substance Use
An addiction to drugs and alcohol is not really an addiction to the drugs or to the alcohol. Rather we become addicted to a way of life. Our drug of choice, for better or for worse, helps us find our bearing in the world, and it is much more difficult to let go of a...
by rulamo | Nov 29, 2020 | Therapy
The vast majority of people who are contemplating seeing a therapist will be marred by doubts and reservations that may ultimately get in the way of following through. Some of these concerns may be quite rational and practical, but others are typically roadblocks we...
by rulamo | Nov 29, 2020 | Therapy
Good psychotherapy is not about offering solutions to people’s problems. It is about helping people understand what their problem really is… Meet Joe… Joe is depressed. His wife just declared that she is going through with her divorce. Having built...
by rulamo | Nov 29, 2020 | Therapy
The Beauty of Therapy: My many years of experience as a therapist have taught me that therapy is a beautiful experience. People change by finding connections between memories, thoughts, and feelings, forming beautiful new patterns out of the fragments of their life....
